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Hi fellow players,
Everytime I go out at night I struggle with loud music. It also does not help that English is not my first language. This makes even a simple opener/converstation impossible most of the time. Once I manage to isolate a girl into a quieter area all is well. But how do I reach a little hook point so that she is willing to go somewhere quiet to talk if I only have perhaps a sentence or two to say???
I read advice about just dancing and communicating non-verbally but I tend to eject fast when I am not able to build attraction verbally. I prefer words.
Do you have some TIPS on this?
Do you have some favourite short openers that demonstrate enough value and hook the girl for the move?
Cheers
Beast
You don't need to say much of anything on these points anyway.
Sometimes LESS is more. A smile, a wink, eye contact, or an extended hand to pull her to dance is far more useful than an opener in a club environment.
When you're ready to move her, tell her you're going for a smoke/drink/fresh air/whatever you want to get her from the loud environment.
CHAT
