Seems to happen constantly where I would meet a girl and setup a date/walk/etc and she would cancel...here is what typically happens to me next...

I get frustrated/upset/disappointed and I would either:

A. Ignore her and not contact her/wait her to contact me...and most of the time she never does.

B. Try to reschedule and it goes into a never ended loop of her having other plans etc.

C. Blow her out and tell her how inconsiderate she is, yep its loss too.

D. Your suggestion?

Girls flake when you don't focus on building a connection with them through the form of contact that you have when you have it.

What use in spending hours with someone who didn't bother establishing emotional connection in the 5 minutes you guys were talking. They would only see the experience as a longer version of the 5 minutes. First impressions are everything.

Second, girls are only going to flake on guys they A) aren't interested in, or B) feel like they can still keep him around if they flake. If i know I can eat your food and you'll still want to be my friend, ima do it. Free food why not. And you're just free attention.

Practice building emotional connections, and then begin deleting a woman from your phone the moment she flakes. NO second chances, even if she caves and asks you to hang out another time. Still ignore and move on no matter how much you like her.

This will build your emotional fortitude. And at this level thats what you need. Once thats established you won't be having this problem.

Growth takes sacrifice. What are you willing to sacrifice? Sometimes its sacrificing the girl you really like, for the sake of your own growth.

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