I met a chick, got number and we chilled twice for 30-40 minutes.(lunch breaks) Now I am on another job and won't see her around. My last day on the job she texts me, "do you think I could get a ride to my next stop cuz I don't think I'll make it on time."(she delivers stuff on foot) I didn't notice the txt for about 10mins and when I called back there's no answer. Then I get a txt saying "it's ok I got a ride." THEN a second later she calls and needs a ride again so I gave it to her. She told me I talk a lot, I'm an interesting person, something on the lines of being cute, joked about running away with a group of animals together and responded "me too" when I told her I'm glad we met. However, this chick is busy as hell and I barely get a txt or call back.
I need a good way to NEG text, "I can't help but feel I was used for a ride" being she didnt respond to my last 2 calls. The first time she didn't respond to my text and calls, I sent her one saying, "I knew that beautiful smile was too good to be true. You're shy in a cute way though." She responded immediately. Women are strange sick individuals.
At this point in the game I feel I am losing 11-4 in the bottom of the 7th. I don't mind losing as long as the game is enjoyable so I hope some of you have some good NEG ideas to get some runs on the board for me. I was too nice and didn't get anything back for giving her a ride. Well, she was very greatful and thankful but still......I want more

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im new 2 this but a problem shared is a problem halved...or h.e that sayin goes...

i think its important not to get a case of oneitis

it looks to me like shes neg-ing you... you talk alot etc... maybe you could try sarging and say that to a couple of girls and note their responses

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If I'm not getting a phone pick-up from her, I'll text her and neg her for a) not answering my call and b) having a certain characteristic (a more general neg about her accent, clothing or behaviour). I'll then move to DHV and sign off quickly.

I've used the example below very recently after she failed to pick up the phone. The background is is that she knows that I'm a musician in a band,and so I focus my DHV spikes on this:

"OMG dude, you're like a mouse! Difficult to get hold of! Don't worry, your Welsh accent is cute, I'd never make fun of it! . No worries. You gave me a new idea for the 1st line of a new song by btw. It goes "good moments pass and open the door for others". Believe me, it works well with my guitar! Take care little mouse!".

She got back to me positively after this. As long as you've got a decent DHV spike prepared, then you should be able to construct a good text message.

In your current situation, I'd text-neg her in two ways.

1) I'd begin my text-neg about the way she interacted with you. This is not easy I suppose, but I would go along the lines of the example I use above, but modify it to your situation:

"OMG dude, you're so like a mouse! Difficult to get hold of! It's funny, because you were a very talkative parrot in my car in the other day!

2) The second neg should be about her using you for a ride, but it shouldn't be the focal point of the text message. If you made it so, she would think that you're perhaps making a big deal out of it. So, as a passing remark at the end of your text message, I would just say something like the example below (I've just thought of this so "3 requirements" are not very original. I'll work on it though!. Its about the principle really):

"...btw, if you want to jump in my car again, you must bring 3 things: 1)your opinion on my friend's troubled relationship; 2) a good joke to cheer us both up and 3) your infectious laugh...I must say its gold! ).

I would also furnish the text with a more neutral statement in between these negs and sign off with your name at the end.

Hahaha,

This is unintentional control by the way you described the situation.

She's controlling you.
She wants to know for sure that you have interest in her.
(i.e. the test with I really like you!! How about you??)

Here it is:
- No texting, easy way for girls to fuck around with you.

- Arrange a plan, I'm not going to tell you how, just do it and do it like it's NOT a big deal.

- Meet her and do push pull with 80-push 20-pull.

Let her know YOU'RE the prize. I think PUA's learned this since day one. haha

If you do it right and use some other moves, you'll get laid in no time.

Dude,
Like I said, bottom of the 7th and I'm losing 11-4. I'll let you guys know how it goes. I currently have a "sex partner" and as a result played this other situation bad with foggy vision. Now that I am losing, I am ready to start playing.....I think I forgot to play the game in the first place. I was alseep. I'll keep you updated and whoever posted before good advice...or we shall see and learn.