Mystery says attraction does NOT get the girl, you must get her to invest in the interaction. How do you do this...this is one of the most crucial steps to seduction, I don't know how to get her to invest?

maybe its just me but i feel like the girl should invest in you mutually if shes attracted to you. i mean when u think about it, atrraction is about investing and u want to make her want to be involved with u.


pm me if u dont get it.

I think what Mystery was getting at, was that it isn't the girl being attracted to you that gets the girl. A girl may find you physically attractive, or attractive for a whole list of other reasons...but this won't keep her around.

Mystery instead suggests that she needs to invest in you...meaning she needs to invest time, energy and emotion into you, making her want to keep you around to see her investment 'grows'.

I suppose you could think of it somewhat in the financial sense of investing. In order to do this..you first need to make yourself a person worthy of investing in, for example by using DHV techniques. You can also neg her to get her to want to invest in you in order to 'win' your approval, which she will want to do if you deny her immediate acceptance. Building comfort also shows her that investing in you isn't a waste, and that she won't get "ripped off", or waste her time.

Once you have achieved the above, you can start to show her that her investment is 'growing', by slowly giving her more acceptance, approval, and attention, and in a sense investing back in her. But at the same time, you always want to seem volatile, like at any moment you could get up and leave with her investment, because you have better people to invest in you. This is the key, I believe, to creating sexual tension with her, is is the basis behind push-pull and cat-string theory.