Ive tried this with about 4 girls. 2 of them had bf

The thing in common with all them was : I started with eye contact, after a while of gazes, I go and open with something situational (I hate opinion or "i just wanted to say hi" openers).

Then Id start talking random stuff, they would smile and be receptive:

2 girls of them didnt have bf:

Girl A: I isolated, did kino, tried to create rapport... kissed her after 20 min of meeting her, but after a couple of kisses she seemed unreceptive, in a trance and didnt want to give me her number.

Girl B: Same way, we walked but her female friend was around, we were holding hands, she would get very physical with me but didnt want to kiss me.

2 girls who had bf:

Both were opened at the gym at different months:

Girl C was receptive to me, had good/strong eye contact and kino, even gave me her number but we never made it to the date.

Girl D was receptive to me, laughs, smiles, but she is kinda reserverd with kino, I touched her slowly and not too aggresive. Sometimes she would accept the touch others she would just retreat a bit but not close herself. Eye contact with her is decent. We talked about guitars because were both guitarists, and stuff like that, and we arranged to work out at the same hour the next day.

So next day she arrives 30 min late to the gym (I dont have problem with this) , we talk but shes kinda reserverd for some moments, and when I left with her she always goes to home (she literally lives next to the gym) So I havent asked her number yet, but seems like I should just stop and go next.


I dont know what is exactly my flaw.... any guidance?

You're speaking my language sir.

Not saying you did but don't ask a girl if she has a bf.

You need a significantly larger sample size than 4 to be able to analyze your results with any meaning behind it.

It is not easy to keep a spark going for as long as you were in these sets for. Close out of the set earlier with a reason to leave and get her #. Alternatively go on an instant date with her.

Overall though, meet more women.