hey guys i was at a party last night and there was this HB9 that i was trying to game. She was with this one guy and they always hook up so i didn't expect to get anything out of it. anyway im having trouble stopping negging her. she was my beer pong partner and i would say something dumb when she missed a shot and she would laugh and punch me. I did a few compliance tests with her and she complyed 2 out of like 4 times. but then she ended up with that same old guy again. I don't know how and when to stop negging her and that is my major sticking point i realize. i kinda was being c&f too much i think. i need help fixing this what do you guys suggest?