I have a terrible sticking point I have noticed with a lot of my day 2s and such
I have no problem building attraction and escalating and for a fair amount of reasons I find myself unable to full close,
It goes like this, after the initial attraction and number or kiss close and the end of the night etc, my text game starts and I continue to escalate and have a pretty good record of getting girls to masturbate on the same day I meet them, but here is my problem I feel like after she feels that sexual gratification from that the interest they have in me starts to dwindle and I end up with a lack of meetups or less than enthusiastic day 2s, So what I want to ask is this, how do I reduce flaking and continue to keep interest in me?
it is because I miss out on comfort stages and they have subconscious buyers remorse or is it me not being as forward and sexual consistently on the day after they masturbate to me?
I have a girl I am talking to at the moment I met yesterday who did just that and she is making all sorts of excuses not to meet up, like work and family commitments, I understand it is very close to Christmas and she might not be lying but how do I get her enthused about meeting me? it it because it is framed with the intention of sex? help me guys!

Modify how you handle things with women: Don't have them masturbating to you over the phone on the same night you meet them; keep the mystery alive. The time to get sexual with the girl is in person not over SPAM or snapchat.