| I've been in a similar situation lately.
I agree with the above post if its appropiate, if she's been obviously going from warm to cold shoulder on you, then go ahead and call her out on it. She seems to be playing a game back with you, but you simply shouldn't have to put up with it.
Punish her when she plays stupid games that you don't like...don't let her control the frame, you should always be in control. However, I would guess (its only a guess, I obviously cant judge your relationship) that her game playing is a sign of her interest - she's trying to get you to show her signs that you're into her, but being a PUA you're not as easy to read as she wants you to be.
When she starts to play nicely, then I don't think it'd be wrong to go ahead and set something up that would involve meeting up. Tell her you're going to the club on Friday, or going for a quick coffee break on Wednesday, etc., and tell her to come along. You aren't asking her out on a date - you already have a life other than hers, and inviting her to join you.
If she says yes, you win. If she says no, she loses, because you'll get bored and move on to better prospects, and she'll have lost out. If she realises her mistake and comes crawling back, make her work for it. If she doesn't, she's lost a great opportunity. And if she starts talking to you again after this, I'd say move on - you can't waste that much time and energy on one girl. At that point, it'll be up to her to win you back if she wants you.
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