Hi all,

I'd just like to get some opinions on what exactly is DHV, when should it come into play, and how?

I've seen a lot of posts from guys saying they use "DHV stories".

I've read that in the beginning DHV is done mostly through body language, and that it's called "demonstrating" because it's shown, not expressed through words. Basically, that literature said that in the beginning DHV is the same thing as demonstrating that you're not needy.

So, could somebody give me an example of a DHV story and also tell me when DHV stories are useful? Please and thank you.

If you're going the way of having your game outlined, as opposed to natural, DHV happens a couple of times throughout the process. I always had a DHV game or story ready as soon as the approach was over. This is where the hook point almost always took place. After you've built some comfort, hit your target with a couple of negs, isolate your target, and DHV again with something like the cube, or any DHV routine that's more personal. Then close. This is the whole process in a nutshell. I hope this helps!


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Fuck demonstrating higher value... BE A PERSON OF HIGHER VALUE.

- have a clear vision of what you want in life

- Workout at least 4x a week

- Experience NEW things that you can talk about, take on new hobbies.

- Travel around the world

- Read a book a week (or ever a book a month) the average person reads 1 book a year IF THAT

- Never put her above you just because she's a woman (well unless you're having sex... then she can be on top of you)

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DHV is hard to explain to people who just dont get it, DHV is showing that you see yourself as having higher worth than her or another person. Am example is if an old tramp lying on the street called you a dick would you be hurt by his comments? No you would probably laugh or not react at all because deep down you know your better than him. So when HB8 shit tests you and calls you a dick or whatever and you just completely ignore her comment and carry on with what your doing or you laugh it off with something like "that was cute "you just DHV'd. DHV stories are when you tell stories that portray you as the kind of guy that has high social value or has a lot of self worth.

-dont let your emotions manipulate with you, just stay confident and unreactive - try to behave at every fucking situation like it is nothing special for you

-enjoy the conversation, dont be stressed

-dont bother with thoughts like "what if I insult her? What if.. ?" - just be straight and act like the man who knows what he wants:
-if you dont agree with her, tell her that and show her you have your own opinions and you express your feelings
-tease her: if she says aynthing that forces you to be cocky and funny, just do that but be careful to dont become a clown(also do this cocky and funny without laughing.. again: stay unreactive - be cocky and funny but dont laugh even if she does(she will for sure), like it is standard for you)


bro, just think about the quote "be yourself, but the best yourself" - if you are YOURSELF, you express your real feelings and your own opinions.. you wont just subordinate to somebody.. at any situation be confident, dont get confused by the girls physical beauty etc

DHV can be a vague concept, but I hope I clear things up. Basically, there's a principle to keep in the back of your mind and that's the more perceived work you put in, the less valuable you seem. The less perceived work you put in, the more valuable you seem.

Examples: Think of two men talking to one another, and while Guy #1 is leaning in, asking the Guy #2 every question under the sun trying to get a little info from him, Guy #2 is responding to Guy #1 with one-worded answers, an aloof body language, and overall relaxed and easy going demeanor. Who looks more powerful in the conversation? If you said Guy #2, you're beginning to understand DHV.

Think about it this way. We are putting in a great deal of effort learning the game to meet women. If you met a woman and hit it off with her using some of the techniques you've learned from the PUA community, then you'll be more successful. But, if you let her in on the fact that you spend time in learning PUA to be the master attractor that you are, than her interest in you will probably evaporate.

DHV is not about showing off how rich you are, or how well-traveled, or how well you can play the saxophone. DHV is about realizing that YOU are in full control of YOU. If you play the game (or life in general) with the mentality that you are in control of what happens to you, then that's another good indicator.

A mindset that I personally use the most is the idea that "I am giving this woman the opportunity to talk to me, know me, and sleep with me." By putting myself in the position that my time is a gift to her, I am DHV. Most men will try to go out in order to "get laid." The key word here is "get." People with high value don't need to "get" anything because they have it all. People with high value have the resources to "give."

So, in short;

-Don't try so hard (or seem like you are)
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-Enter with the right mindset (DHV is deeply rooted in your inner game)

Remember that wise men never say that they are wise.