Hey there!

I think I have good social skills: Im an active member of the groups Im in (class, neighborhood, etc), I have good conversational and communicational skills, Im good at understanding girls and people in general and reading them quite accurately, etc.

I dont have a problem talking to girls, maybe I do when it comes to cold approaching but I establish nice connections and relationship with girls from my class, from friends of friends, etc.

The issue I do have, is that I find it really hard to escalate and most of my "dates" end up as the beggining of a nice friendship.

Ive been friendzone countless times throughout my life and is mainly because I dont know how to take a step further and go for it, go for the k-close or let her know that I want her in my f*** bed!!

What advice would you give me in order to be more "sexual" and go further nice friendly relationship with girls?

Thanks in advance!

Hey!

For me reading 60 years of challenge gave the big improvement in this area 'cause it set my mindset.

Notice and repeat every day that women need cock. They love cock, they love sex. It is important because if you focus on this you can escalate easier. SHE WANTS IT. I screwed escalation lot of times because I've been looking for her confirmation all the times and that's why I've never pushed things further. One thing is more than enough for confirmation that you are doing it right: she stays and don't tell you to fuck off.

In my personal experience women love if you communicate them that you know they are sexual beings with unfulfilled desires what they can hardly tell to anyone (or they can't at all). By doing that you basically say that "you are the inner guy".

Other thing I like to do is saying equivocal sentences with sexual meaning. eg:
HB:
-Give it to me please. -while looking to the apple for the sake of the example
Me:
-I will.-looking down- And the apple as well..

After a while a well aimed sexual cold reading is a good thing to do to be more sexual. It creates the feeling that you are the expert and "know her by looking", see her undisclosed desires. Obviously after that you can talk about sex much more comfortable and it creates a deep connection.

For physical:
- hold the eye contact
- don't pull your hand away when you shaking hands first just wait until she does
- be close to her
- touch her, caress her and escalate it
- you can go for the kiss easily if you are hugging her

You should start escalating ASAP because it will be much harder and creepier later.
And for last words: Always choose the option that creates more sexual tension and don't break it.

Hope I could help a little bit

Please tell me how could you use it.

Good luck!

_________________
"Always look on the bright side of life"

Another thing: When it comes to going for the kiss, wait until you're really close to her, like sitting next to eachother with your arm around her... go in as if you're going for the kiss, put your hand on her chin and pull her towards you, but whisper something in her ear instead (anything you want, doesn't have to be anything sexual lol) make sure your lips touch her ear a little too, just as if it was an accident and you didn't even notice ...watch how she reacts. The key is to make it LOOK like you're about to kiss her. If she turns her head away, you know she doesn't want it. If she doesn't, she wants it and you've just teased her so now she wants it more.

Another thing you can do; when you're close to her, look into her eyes, then down to her lips, back to her eyes, back down to her lips.. do this slowly over the course of about 5-6 seconds. If she looks at your lips at any point, she wants it. Got this from a book, used it ever since, which is only on 3 girls, but it worked with all 3. I sort of use both of these tactics and by the time I do go for the kiss, the girl is pretty much ready to dive on me.

_________________
I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

Branding. Start with the nonverbals.

1. Put shiny things near your cock.

2. Accentuate your cock with your hands. See masculine body language.

3. Hold her hand.

4. Learn to eye fuck.

5. Learn mutual seduction. Search for Teevster and study his posts.

_________________
Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

_________________
The ultimate lesson of psychoanalysis is that human life is never "just life": we are possessed by the strange drive to enjoy life in excess, attached to a surplus which derails the ordinary run of things.
-Slavoj Zizek

Make your intent known from the very start. From the first eye contact.

Reframe how you think about yourself: You're a sexual guy. You are used to having sex and you anticipate that sex is a normal occurrence in your relationships with women.

On the "date", sit next to the girl. Kino, eye contact, flirting, kiss close.