I can get a girl's attention easily and I can seal the deal after attraction and comfort are built more times than not, but where my game really suffers is the 5 minutes right after I open (pretty crucial time lol). Either I don't say enough or I start to sound like I'm interviewing them. Also it often feels forced and awkward: I'll say something, she'll respond, silence, I'll say something else, she'll respond, silence...

When the girl has an awesome personality it's very easy but a lot of the girls seem either intimidated or waiting for me to impress them. Could use some tips on how to survive that eternity of 5 minutes right after the approach and open.

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You must be overconfident and cocksure, even if you haven't got a god damn thing in the world going for you. And you must fail with women until you do not fear the possibility of failure, whereupon you will succeed wildly.

Just be yourself and comfortable in whatever you decide to do or say. The girls sense that uncomfortable vibe you get because you begin to give it off in your actions and talk. Be comfortable in things getting uncomfortable. Call out the elephant in the room. If she is being weird and you think she is waiting for you to do something, call her on it. You do not always have to fill silent voids with meaningless jargon. That sets off a weaker stance as you have made it your duty to fill all holes in the conversation.

Be interesting, talk and introduce yourself and learn some stuff about her. She will give you all clues you need. Do not stay too long. If it is time and you feel like you have hooked her enough, suggest a day and place to hang out. Go there or get the number and bounce if an insta-date or ONS is not possible.

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LOL. derrr..

But learn some game or something. It's called the transition.

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smh that's seriously your response? learn some game or something? thanks bro u r a tru teacher.

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You must be overconfident and cocksure, even if you haven't got a god damn thing in the world going for you. And you must fail with women until you do not fear the possibility of failure, whereupon you will succeed wildly.

this is great advice and gives me a much better frame to be in. thanks.

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You must be overconfident and cocksure, even if you haven't got a god damn thing in the world going for you. And you must fail with women until you do not fear the possibility of failure, whereupon you will succeed wildly.

Basic stuff mate, like one of the 1st things you read when you get into this studf...

I don't really understand why you couldn't just search the forum or just type it into YouTube

The reason for my "advice" is because you're being lazy and would rather use people's time to help you rather than simply googling yourself

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dude this is the sticking point section of the forum, this is my sticking point. sometimes it's nice to have an open dialogue going instead of just passively taking in data from old posts. and some people like actively teaching other people stuff too as it helps solidify their own command of material. it's not that big a deal.

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You must be overconfident and cocksure, even if you haven't got a god damn thing in the world going for you. And you must fail with women until you do not fear the possibility of failure, whereupon you will succeed wildly.