I've noticed I have a glaring problem in my game... The problem is i'm too picky and too nice to my bros.

For instance, if a friend likes a chick I won't try get her. Even if I was contemplating it, talking to her fora while i'll cease if a friend expresses interest even if it's halfway through the night and hours after we've been talking to these women. I just end up feeling sorry for my mate and let him go for it, even if she's all over me. This kind of leads into my other problem...

I'm way too fucking picky. Due to how picky and high my standards are i'll have a HB7 or HB8 eating out of my hand but i'll be holding back and not too interested in closing her or i'll easily not be bothered pawning her off to a friend that wants her. It's pretty much gotten to the point where I have to really like a girl and have her build rapport with me to actually find her interesting enough to close.

What the hell do I do? It's gotten to the point where i'll either be nice or too picky and not so much as to even k-close a girl for a month straight regardless of the amount of times I could have f-closed or k-closed.

What you're describing isn't really 'WRONG' per se...

You like what you like... And you're turned off by shit you don't like. I'm like that too - so are most guys (I would think, anyway)...

You always been this way?

You can't really change your turn-ons/turn-offs and how picky you are, but your tastes can evolve over time.

As for being too nice - yeah, you can sort of control that. Next time your buddy says he's interested in someone and you are too, tell him "well, may the best man win" - and go for her yourself too. I think it's a mindset of looking out for yourself above anyone else - within reason...

I don't feel like it's wrong but I do feel it's a problem for getting more experience under my belt at picking up women and just throwing my dick out there and going for it.

Yeah, i've always been really picky. All my mates and even the chicks I know say i'm the pickiest guy they've met. I still get HB9s and shit but I find they're far and few to find, at least here. It's good and it's bad... I've been known to just date really hot women where mates are left scratching their heads wondering where the fuck I found them and how I ended up nailing them but at the same time because of it I could go months without getting laid. I figure it's more a dilema.. I enjoy sex but I enjoy it more with a quality girl.... anything less just feels pointless.

I guess I could just say that to my mate next time but I don't like competing either. I've just learned to be more aloof and alpha in that regard which works more times than not with women. I think I just need to subtly let my mates know i'm into a chick, isolate her and then close her. Kind of stupid feeling like a dick for it, especially in scenarios where i'm getting hit on and i'm flirting back with these women well before a friend expresses interest.

Mate

Of course you have to be selective, and only spend time and effort in the HB you like. Here I totally agree with you. I had the same thing in the past, friends tell why I am so picky? While the girls showing obviously interest? I always said something like i.e. they are chubby, big nose, sluts, bitches, etc. So i didn't approach or spend effort in them. Meanwhile I did enjoy that the HB showed interest in me....

So the general question to all of us is: ask yourself honestly, are you really picky or are you finding excuses not to open the girl?? For me it was the latter.