I have come to realize that I can read all the post and articles in the world and believed that I have been enlightened but if I dont actually go out and apply them then im wasting my time. However, I will also say beware of the articles you absorb because we are not robots, don't go fixing everything little thing because an author wrote it doesn't display "alpha male" qualities. For example, i read that licking my lips time from time shows that i lack confidence. Cmon now really? As long as I'm comfortable in my skin i perceive that i can do whatever i want.

That is my problem, becoming confortable. I admit I excessively seek approval. Any tips in this matter will be appreciated. Thanks

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- Smoooovv !

Really, confidence comes from:

A) Knowing that you are fucking awesome
B) Carrying yourself like you are fucking awesome
C) Not giving a FUCK

It's really that simple.

If you don't know you are fucking awesome, well, take a look at all the awesome shit you are doing. I bet you've got some awesome shit going for you.

If you don't know how to carry yourself, look up some stuff on body language and listen to your parents advice from when you were a kid. Keep your back straight, lower your shoulders, sway when you walk, talk straight, low and slow and stay loose. Smile a lot. Your body will begin to adapt and take over.

If you give a fuck, stop IMMEDIATELY. Who fucking cares what anyone else thinks? They don't know you for shit and they don't need to.

Hope this helps.

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What I take from this is the concept of self-love. Its not so easy to not give a fuck but im doing my best.

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- Smoooovv !