There's a certain type of woman that I get around and totally lose my cool chill playful charm around. These, I guess are alpha women. The confident, pretty, often stoic, women who want to control every situation they are in, and believe that they can. I got one on a date tonight, then back to my place, then I lost all my cool and got completely nervous. She ended up leaving without setting another date. (Yes, this has happened before) I even got one woman to the point of kissing then lost my cool. I don't know what is happening, but all of a sudden my mind gets into a worry, "what if I do something wrong and they don't like me", "I better sit still and wait for them to make a move" mode.

Maybe they are giving me some type of indicator of non-interest, or indicator of their own control. The woman tonight gave lots of DHV of herself. It gets me all fucked. I noticed I can do whatever I want to women who seem submissive, or who have low self esteem. With those women I act perfectly! Not only do I get them off, but I can get them addicted to me. Which makes me even more steamed about these other women and their magical powers.

GRRRR So frustrated. Is there a new way to look at these "alpha" women in a new light to calm me down mentally when I'm with them?

It happens to the best, once you think about fucking up, you will fuck up. Just go with the vibe and stop worrying about IOD's, IOI's etc. It's bullcrap.

Edit : A big part that's destroying your game with "alfa woman" is because you think of them as alfa. Instead of keeping the mindstate of being alfa yourself.

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