Dudee, I used to have really bad AA. After a while I stopped having problems with that. Now my problem is that once I enter a set I can't build attraction and escalate. I've been cold approaching for almost a year and I can even go as far as number close. But I never build attraction and so all of the girls I open end up viewing me as a friend and flaking. I don't mean escalating verbally I've been told I have a dirty mind a LOT. It's physically that's holding me back. I

I also need help on getting to day 2's. So any advice you guys have will be aappreciated.

A big gateway to escalating is qualifying. Qualifying is easier the more you are attracted to her. Find what it is that makes you attracted to her, and tell her what it is.

Stuck in your head and can't figure out what it is? Let her know anyway. Ex: "I can't put my finger on it but for some reason I am really attracted to you."

Guage her reaction and act accordingly. She's blushing? Move in for a kiss. She's turned off entirely? Nice to meet you sweetheart. Have a nice night.



As far as flaking goes, fill up your schedule more and build up your options and lower your standards. Going dry on the dating scene will just leave you with inexperience when the better girls come along. Who knows. Maybe you might be attracted to things about women who you are not as physically attracted to.

The more dates you have the less time you will have for new ones and you will learn to fine tune what it is you want in a woman, and you will progress in your standard of physical quality as well.

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