I'm doing good with the initial approaches n my game is getting. I'm able to get numbers phone with the sevens and eights on okay basis. But after a few days it seems like that perception of me fades away. And I don't want her to think that I'm just a nice guy but someone who's excited to her. Someone that, edgy and a little dangerous and mysterious. So how should I deal with a girl who has that perception of me after that first encounter?

I'm doing good with the initial approaches n my game is getting. I'm able to get numbers phone with the sevens and eights on okay basis. But after a few days it seems like that perception of me fades away. And I don't want her to think that I'm just a nice guy but someone who's excited to her. Someone that, edgy and a little dangerous and mysterious. So how should I deal with a girl who has that perception of me after that first encounter?

You need to change your initial encounter, if you want to be seen as edgy and mysterious, then you have to be edgy and mysterious. David deangelo has an audiobook on sexual communication. That's quite useful to help maintain and build excitement.

You need to tell her very little factual information about yourself, but convey a deeper and allround different perception of life to her, this will help you to remain a mystery to her. Let little bits of your life come out in your DHV stories, but when she tries to dig, just avoid the question, this will build her curiosity...

Also try to meet her as soon as possible after your initial encounter. I find this helps keep you fresh in her mind.

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If you are texting them with a drop-in and then texting them for a date after the convo and getting no response, try bringing a little kino, strong eye contact, smooth tonality into the convos if those elements are not there already.

If instead you are texting them to just chat after the initial convo, try texting them for a date after the convo.

thank you this helps a lot and next time i'll make sure to use more kino and stronger eye contact. the David deangelo audiobook was very help full.

Another alternative is to set a date in person the first time you meet her:

You: "You and I are gonna grab a coffee tomorrow evening."
Her: "Oh really"
You: "Yeah."