So here's the deal. I'm fairly new to the game, I have no problems escalating and kiss closing in clubs, however in one on one situations I seem to. I've recently been on several dates with different women, and the conversation flows fine and I can get them to open up to me easy enough. However I struggle to escalate conversation and ultimately only end up with a mere few kisses, sometimes only at the end of the night. So what I'm asking for is any help in escalating conversation, any routines or suggestive lines would be appreciated.

ILynx

_________________
"Usually, what you wish for doesn't fall in your lap; it falls somewhere nearby, and you have to recognize it, stand up, and put in the time and work it takes to get to it"

I'm not sure escalating the conversation is what you need to do in this situation.

Try LEADING it to the bedroom instead.

You can keep the tension just with eye contact and playing with her hands, all you need to do is take it somewhere private..

..people here seem to think that girl has to be telling you that she wants to deep throat you before they get physical which is not true.

_________________
USER HAS BEEN BANNED FOR REPEATEDLY IGNORING MOD WARNINGS AND MULTIPLE RULE VIOLATIONS

Makes a lot of sense. It shall be used this week. Thanks for the help.

_________________
"Usually, what you wish for doesn't fall in your lap; it falls somewhere nearby, and you have to recognize it, stand up, and put in the time and work it takes to get to it"

It's all about physical interaction. That and confidence. Talking is just fluff after a certain point. You need to be able to take control and take control physically, as in get her close to you.

A kiss is important, you can show a lot of what you're like in bed with a kiss. The importance of a kiss isn't the kiss itself but what you're doing with your hands and body. Obviously if you're a bad kisser you're going to have to address it before you move onto what you're doing with the rest of your body.

Kissing and physical touch is where I excel at, it's natural to me. The magic about a kiss is you can be a completely different person. Consider a kiss your secret persona. When you're kissing a woman you're a completely different person with different morals, different ideas of what's sexy and what's exciting, you're living in the moment. Women pick up on this and it turns them on. It turns them on because they can get lost in this "new" man, this stranger they can feel comfortable and dirty with but you have to be able to back it up with a lot of teasing, physical touch and a bit of roughness.

What I do, and it works because I enjoy it too, is I start off by taking control and leading her into the kiss. When I go to kiss her I will start with an innocent kiss, a peck on the lips then after a few seconds slowly move on to kissing her properly. What i'll usually do is massage her tongue with mine and mix making out with her with pecking her lips, slightly withdrawing and kissing again. The more I get into it the closer I get and begin to press her body against mine or mine against her(If she's standing against something -- I much prefer this). While i'm doing this i'll take control of the moment, I will make her put her hands where I want them(Usually do this when leading into a kiss). I'll grab her wrists and put her arms around my neck gently and put my hands on her waist then move my hands to different parts of her body, usually the small of her back. When i'm ready to escalate it and turn her on further i'll slowly bring one hand to the back of her head, the other to her waist and move away from her lips to kiss her neck. While i'm kissing her neck i'll get forceful and bite her neck(Without leaving a mark). I'll tug at the skin on her neck gently with my teeth for a second then kiss her neck. While i'm doing this my hand will be massaging where her head meets the back of her neck. I'll only gently massage her neck though. I'll also be pressed against her and massaging her waist with my other hand very gently(VERY gently so that it's barely noticeable), enough so it's not idle on her side. If it feels right and she's gasping(Which is what happens, you will seriously get a woman wet) grab her hair and lightly pull at it. Usually I wouldn't get too forceful the first time I kiss her unless she seems like she wouldn't be easily intimidated because what I always do is grab their hair, pull their head back from a kiss and look them in the eye before biting their neck again and then i'll lead them into kissing my neck. You will never have to worry about not fucking a woman if you can get your kiss down. When i'm winding down from a kiss i'll start teasing her by tugging on her bottom lip, leading out of the kiss then pull my body away from hers slowly.

Just remember you're not hurting her, anything I said about "forceful" is just playful with a bit of enthusiasm I guess you would call it. You NEVER hurt the girl. EVER. There's a distinct difference in a forceful/playful bite/tug on the neck and a bite on the neck. One hurts, the other doesn't.

If you get that down you'll have her eating out of your hands. She will be gasping, she will be wet and she will want more. She will literally be in a hightened sense of state. Almost hypnotised. Every woman i've kissed like that has gone crazy and it's amazing to see. They will get carried away in it and go primal on your ass if you coerce them to. You'll notice a sort of "calm before the storm", they will allow you to move them without resistance of any kind, give you a lustfully blank expression, breath deeply and show that they want you. At this moment when you pull back and look them in the eye you can give them they cue to go primal and the best way to do that is just before you look the in the eye you make sure you've been teasing them by biting their neck then you move them towards you neck and they go crazy.

It's amazing.