hey mate
Sounds like your doing fine, the only thing other than the falling asleep you've done wrong is the instant demand to meet up should have given bit more time to plan it etc. As for her not suggesting another time your reading to much into it just shrug it off don't get oneittus you should have at least two to three possibility's on the go at any time. Its not enough to convince her you are the prize you have to actually be a prize

. The point of being the bad boy is that you can shrug off her refusals it really doesn't matter to you what she does as you've always got other options out there.
In regards to seeing her again though invite her to go out to a few bars, most importantly meet her at hers for predrinks. Bring bottle of white wine to drink and escalate with her at start of night and finish when you left your (fill in item here) at her place.
hope this helps
urbane.