Always been a bit of probem for me. I've quite sick of it now and need some advice.

I've had like one proper girlfriend and I'm 30 next year. This relationship was a decade ago and last nearly 3 years.
I've not had many chances with girls due to not having a load friends. I'm upset since they do flirt and I am tall and quite good looking but feel I can't live up to my potential while still at home. Although I'm saving up it's just bugging everytime I see this amazing girl and see her ask for my number and expect me to have things sorted. It used to be not having a car that was making me feel this way but now I've got a nice car and it's making realise more. I get quite alot of attention at the bar where I do security and see some great girls. I just never know how to proceed.

you could take them back to a hotel or ask about going back to their place. if you are looking for a relationship you should probably go on a few dates with them before you tell her about your situation, they will probably be more understating that way than if you told them straight away.

Mate, fuck her in the car. Do you think a girl will fuck you in a toilet, outside, on a bench, at a funeral if she's turned on enough. Tell her you'll get some food and drive her home. Get some food put her into the car and on the way home say something like 'I want to show you this really cool place. It's a quick detour'. I'm in a similar situation but see it as an obstacle to be overcome. Jungle warfare bud, use what you got. I'll also be honest I haven't been successful yet but I know plenty of other that have.

- Jack

Need more advice on this situation. Must of got 3 girls numbers this weekend without trying. I just feel awkward about things. The sex and fun shouldn't seem so far away but when you think of all the things you need to do it becomes difficult. I met a blonde nurse tonight, chatted away for awhile at work she was fully interested. I probably will contact her over the next few days but if I went out with her I wouldn't know what I would be comfortable doing. I like a good drink, but then they need a lift home. I could go without drinking and drive but I'm a new driver and wouldn't even know where I would be driving too as I'm not someone who goes out all of the time.

Having your own place is almost a necessity, especially for guys our age (30+). Of course I don't know the circumstances, and it is rather easy to say to just get your own place...

If you are a decent girl, would you go to a hotel?? NO!! Because no girl wants to feel like whores, unless she is one.

If you still live with your parents, it is no excuse not to game well. Don't let this hold you back! In the end it is all about how you make the girl feel....

Totally understand guy! I too am in a similar situaition i.e. I live with my friend's mom currently and it certainly is no place to take women. I had a realization and will be moving out soon.

For you I suggest that if you can't get your own place then look on C.L. and find a "rooms shared" situation. You could probabaly score roommates in a total bachelor pad that will let you stay with them for $400 a month. I don't know your city but I am sure you could find an affordable situation.

Also for the nurse on your "Day 2" I would recommend the "Eliciliting Values Routine" by Styles. I also am going to be using this for some women. I just revived a "stale number" that I got 2 months ago magically and I have a chance in seeing her within the next few weeks. She is super-sexy and I can't wait to push my limits with her.

Also read "The Mystery Method" and focus on a section that talks about the 3 areas of development e.g. Health, Wealth and Love/Relationships. You seem like you might need to develop the Wealth area; maybe pick a new career or search for a higher paying job or get a second part-time job to boost your finances so you can move out dude! Right now the economy is better then its been in the past 20 years! Did you know that? I recently read something about it in the news; it said that the S and P 500 (a list of the top 500 companies on the Stock Market) is doing better then its done in 2 decades--this list is used by economists and financial gurus to determine the transparency and velocity of the market i.e. how well it is currently doing and how fast consumption is in regards to trading and buying everyday products.

Good Luck dude! Hit me up if you need some more advice. I would suggest to continue to develop your lifestyle and just keeping making steps with these women you are seeing! Keep gaming and getting laid dude!