I've noticed that I have a particular problem that keeps coming up.
Whenever I'm out pulling game and girls will leave hints about doing the f-close that night I seem to get nervous and never come up with anything to say just out of sheer shock. What can I do to overcome this last-minute fear?

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The ultimate lesson of psychoanalysis is that human life is never "just life": we are possessed by the strange drive to enjoy life in excess, attached to a surplus which derails the ordinary run of things.
-Slavoj Zizek

Hey man, sometimes it's better to say nothing when she hints of the f-close... just act naturally like it's no big deal and she'll follow your lead... I had this one situation recently where I leave the club with a chick and thought to myself "no way I'm f-closing her tonight" and I just gave the cab driver her address. We arrive at destination and she asks the cabbie "How much". In a split second I thought "Does she want to pay for her part of the ride?" and "Is this a hint to come upstairs?" and "What if I get out of the cab and she says hold it, you're not coming upstairs with me"... and then it hit me... I could play it cool and do damage control if it is the case... ended up doing her and she told me later "I have no idea how we arrived in bed together"... conclusions:

1. don't over think it
2. take the best case scenario (she wants to f-close you like crazy)
3. don't talk about it, give her the chance to say the next day "I have no idea how this happened"...

Good luck!

If a girl goes over the top, as in she takes a stronger sexual frame then I do, then I immediately go to qualifying her in a playful, challenging, friendly way. This is not the time to jump all over her sexual advance and get over eager or nervous. what you should be doing is acting as if you get offers fro sex anytime you want and let her know if things keep going well she has a good shot but you are still judging/qualifying/evaluating/testing her. This pumps the attraction even further