| Hey guys,
OK, I seem to be hitting the same issue all the time... I am good with opening, getting numbers, and getting dates. I am getting sticking points towards the end of dates, and have been told a few times they didn't feel the chemistry, or they are unsure... I don't know if i'm selecting badly, or if i'm doing something really wrong.
For example, met a HB8, chatted briefly, number closed, and we spoke to set a date.. all good so far... She gives IOI's, we even meet spur of the moment and grab a coffee mid week, couple of days before the date... got on great, good IOI's, I teased her, had fun, and we firmed up plans for last night... Spoke a few times on phone,... all good.
Date night comes, she texts me saying she's really nervous as she's not sure how the chemistry is... I punish her for this a little, tease her a bit, but she still really wants the date.
Ok, date arrives, Plan is a drink, dinner, then out for cocktails..... I pick her up, park near the bar, she grabs my hand as we walk... all good.... we grab a drink before dinner, great convo, good IOI's, still teasing her a bit, ran "the cube" and a palm read... all went great... decent kino etc....
Over dinner we chat more, get more deep and meaningful, still hand touching etc, great eye contact etc... after dinner we grab a short cab to the cocktail bar... Cool place, we chat, drink, I carry on chatting, teasing, escalating.... Kiss closed with Styles Phase Shift routine, works a treat and we make out a few times... This is where it all goes to shit.... we move on to the next bar, holding hands as we walk, all good... but in the next place she hits me with "she doesn't think there's much chemistry" she really likes me etc, but she doesn't know..... then she seemed to panic and pretty much go cold... we have our drinks, keep chatting and she gets a cab home.
She texts me when she gets in saying how nice a night she had and saying thanks.... I msg back saying similar and she should give me a call soon, and she calls me straight away.... Basically saying she was sorry and she freaked out a bit... like the same way she did pre-date. And now here we are... I have no idea what she's thinking.
Anyway, my point is 2 fold... 1, how do I get past this "chemistry" issue.... and 2, anyone got a clue what to do with this chick? who I actually really like.
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