This could be classified as an inner game problem. I am an American living in a foreign country. Over here, the girls like American guys so much I don't need to run game on them; they run game on me. They won't be 100 percent direct about it, but they will still be fairly obvious -- for example, on my second date with one girl she had me buy her some sexy lingerie and told me "I hope you like it" and mentioned that she lives alone The problem is, these girls will be totally obvious that they want me to bang them TONIGHT, but when I am in their presence I am totally blind to their game. I will go home alone, wake up the next morining and "suddenly" realize the obvious ("she wanted me to get her lingerie because she was expecting me to bang her last night", for example). By then it's usually too late to get the girl because she figures I'll never actually go through with it. So I kick myself for my own stupidity. Then a couple of days I make the same mistake with another girl. I suspect that I have some sort of unconscious reservation about banging lots of girls, but I am absolutely unaware of what that reservation is. Has anyone else experienced this sort of problem? If so, how did you solve it?

I've been there before. I used to have girls play the game on me. Most probably because of my looks. Sometimes they're so straight forward, or sometimes they give me some sort of sexual innuendo and I never saw it. And ended up not banging them at all. Ever.

Thing is, you can't just let them play the game on you. Try something else out. If they play the game on you, you play back.

Always remember if you're thinking whether you should do it or not, you just do it. Don't think too hard or too long. The closer you look, the less you actually see. So just play it simple and just go easy on it.

I don't know whether anything I said would help haha. But I know, I've been there before. You just gotta let go and move on. Review and reflect on yourself and just do something better next time.

Remember, it's always better to try and fail than to not try and never know the answer at all.

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"Don't try to change who you are. Don't even think you're not good enough right now. You ARE good enough being who you are. Women can smell a fake man the same way you can smell cheesecake."

Girls are excellent at dropping clues. For example, in telling u their situation upon first meeting them, "it's just me and my cat, I live alone." Etc.

Maybe you're concerned they're going to try to rope you in to a relationship/marriage etc. because they're so forward or maybe you're concerned that they only want you for your $ if they believe you're a rich American? Once you start doing it you'll see what happens after the sex with these girls. Whatever their motivation pussy is pussy so enjoy it if u want it.

What country u in BTW?