Sticking point resolved!
First of all: Thanks for the replies! I went out last night and actually managed to figure this sticking point out myself. Problem was that I usually took girls on day 2's to a location way too private for a first kiss. I usually brought them up to my rooftop (I live in an appartment complex) and showed the spectacular view. They always appreaciated it. However, going for the k close in this situation got very odd since they were in a very vulnerable position (she just followed some random dude who got her number on the subway up to his rooftop and now the mofo is trying to kiss her!). It made it way too hard for me to separate actual compliance from simple fear. However: lesson learned. In the future I'll try to get the kiss before I take 'em to the roof. It just makes for better game all around.
Also, regarding my inabbility to spark attraction: I got 6 makeouts with different girls last night and I've never been dry humped as much in my entire life

So the sticking point is resolved. None the less I appreciate your advice and I'll try to implement them into my game. However, I'll probably have to turn eighteen before I can go to any stripclub

Peace out and sarge on!