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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.

It is NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.

A Sticking Point is:
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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
A Sticking Point is NOT:
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
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If you have not already gone out and practiced enough to have a real Sticking Point from meeting an ABUNDANCE of women, YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO POST HERE.



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PostPosted: Wed Oct 30, 2013 5:07 pm 
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Hey!
I have been sarging for a while and I have had some success. I can open sets, reach the hooking point and even #close with relative ease. However, I feel that I rarely spark any REAL attraction. I look average, maybe even a little bit better (got a modelling job offer once) and I am a relatively outgoing person. I have had sucesses (three lays and an uncountable number of K-closes) but it always feels like the interaction that takes place between the hooking point and the K-close is absolutely sterile. It's like I am great with getting attention but I rarely get any real attraction going. Of course I kino escalate a little before going for the kiss (taking her hands and stroking them, sometime holding my arm around her shoulders) and the response of the girl is usually neutral. Not pulling away and not leaning in either. It's like they don't mind me touching them, but they don't enjoy it either. After that I'm pretty much at loss. Should I just tell her to close her eyes and fucking kiss her? I mean, sometimes I do and it works but other times it just feels too weird. I mean imagine being on a day 2 with a girl and holding your arm around her, and yet having like 0 positive responce?
Any suggestions on what I could do differently?
Thank you in advance!


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 30, 2013 5:38 pm 
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Are you making enough eye contact?


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 30, 2013 6:14 pm 
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Every one have different way to game, doesnt mean you necessary need intense attraction and sexualise conversation to make the lays happen. I think you are too brain washed by the fact that you need sexual intent to be a player. Just be 100% congruent with your style of seduction.

If you want have more polarity, a really fast way to archive it is to going to the strip club on sundays. Not buying lap dances but just by sitting there and let strippers to flirt with you. See how a professional does it. Usually after 3-4 times, you know exactly what vibe to give.

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 31, 2013 2:51 pm 
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Sticking point resolved!
First of all: Thanks for the replies! I went out last night and actually managed to figure this sticking point out myself. Problem was that I usually took girls on day 2's to a location way too private for a first kiss. I usually brought them up to my rooftop (I live in an appartment complex) and showed the spectacular view. They always appreaciated it. However, going for the k close in this situation got very odd since they were in a very vulnerable position (she just followed some random dude who got her number on the subway up to his rooftop and now the mofo is trying to kiss her!). It made it way too hard for me to separate actual compliance from simple fear. However: lesson learned. In the future I'll try to get the kiss before I take 'em to the roof. It just makes for better game all around.
Also, regarding my inabbility to spark attraction: I got 6 makeouts with different girls last night and I've never been dry humped as much in my entire life ;) So the sticking point is resolved. None the less I appreciate your advice and I'll try to implement them into my game. However, I'll probably have to turn eighteen before I can go to any stripclub ;)
Peace out and sarge on!


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