a little background: never had a girlfriend, never had sex, 18, kissed 6 girls in my life and they've all been within the last 4 months or so.

so, two nights ago i met two girls and i managed to get back to their place. i slept over. i didn't do anything with her, we just cuddled and talked all night. i think that my problem here is i don't know how to close. i've literally just had my first day in uni yesterday so it's not like i don't have time to learn, but on the night i got some LMR (more like LSecondR) when i put my hand around her neck after a lot of flirting and touching and kinda leaned in, she put her hand on my chest and kinda pushed away and just joked 'what, you think i'm that easy?'. i'm not used to european girls, english girls are much easier and she's from italy and was slightly more reserved while being really flirtatious with me. that was the last time i made a move that night. we didn't even make out.

what i need is some reassurance that sometimes you have to go for a second move. i don't look into pua much at all because i don't want to end up crippling any personality i have left with mechanical step-by-step moves and confident lines etc, but that's just me. i thought i'd just come here before i end up sleeping over again without sleeping with her. thanks.