| Hey there,
Back in HS I was a fat, lonely, disgusting lad. I had a few friends that were mostly nerds like me.
By the end of my HS years I changed my life for good: lose weight, started going out, making friends that were high in the "social scale", etc.
When I was fat and lonely since I didnt go out much I used to chat a lot with girls creating some good relationships that mostly ended in the FZ. Why? because it was everything online and I was thinking all the time: "She's out of my league, Im fat and ugly, even though I have a nice chat with her probably I will never k-close her" and all kind of similar bullshit.
Some of this girls I used to talk to were girls from my school that I liked. The MO was adding a girl to MSN Messenger, starting talking to her and I always managed to like her on a FZ way. Creating confort, strong links, emphaty: that was not hard for me, but the problem was closing, I never found a way to do it since the image I had of myself so the interaction was good but the outcome was always a nice friendship.
Now, things had changed and I consider myself a handsome guy, with a good social life, loads of friends, magnetic personality, etc, but the problem is that I still dont know how to avoid getting in the FZ, I miss the point where I should take a step further and take the interaction more romantic.
I open this thread because Im studying now again and my class is full of HB some of whom already showed some interest on me. Im an "alpha" on the classroom: organizing parties, chatting to everyone, beeing known by everyone, etc, and I just dont wanna make the same mistakes I did back in HS: creating connetions with HB that will end up in the FZ. The problem is that I dont know what to change to avoid that.
Probably the fact that Im fit and goodloking now is gonna help but is not enough I reckon, I still have to change more things on my game to close any of the HB avaiable.
What should I do then?
Thanks in advance
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