im extremely nervous about having sex sober, when im drunk its not a problem, ive slept with 7 girls and im 21, but the thought of doing it sober just makes me so anxious i feel i would struggle to even maintain an erection and literally shake, i suffer from anxiety at times in general, and its not even as if i got nothing to be afraid of, i have a large penis a good body and im not self concious, its just because ive never had sex sober its worrying me. im extremely picky when it comes to girls and i dont want to sleep with anyone just for the sake of getting rid of this fear, but i keep thinking to myself sometimes i need to man the fuck up and get it out of the way so i can be comfortable doing it sober. thing is i havent had a girlfriend since i was like 12 (obviously i wasnt having sex then), i lost my virginity at the age of 18 and just feel ive always sort of been playing catch up and im currently behind where i should be as far as my sex life and experience goes. in every other way im extremely confident except when it comes to sober sex and even dating, shall i just wait until i get comfortable enough with a certain girl, or do i need to fix this asap by embracing it and doing it more to gain confidence.

Have drunk sex with one girl. Then, as you get more comfortable having sex with her, start becoming more and more sober each time you have sex to the point where you have zero blood alcohol content. By the way, alcohol decreases sexual performance. Stay off of it and you'll see you perform way better without it.