I'm a new member so hopefully this is the right place to post this...

I have been a student for the last 3 and a half years, and been single here for the last 2 years, so have made the most of my freedom by going out chatting up girls and dating girls, mostly in bars and clubs, and most of the time I have no problem getting a bit of action with girls I meet on nights out. Only ever one-night stands though, which is all I wanted anyway. Now, however, I have been searching for a proper relationship with girls I actually could have feelings for, so I have been doing a fair amount of dating...

When it comes to dating (I have done a fair amount of speed dating and blind dating), my chat seems good, I get on well with them, and more often than not I manage to keep meeting up with them. But I have NEVER slept with any girl I've dated and this is my problem.
In the last couple of months, for example, I have dated 2 HB8's, I managed to get on 2 or 3 more dates until getting them back to my place or until I go back to theirs for the night... Obviously they're attracted to me, and I'm attracted to them, and there is always a lot of kissing, but the touching just seems to come from me. I'm not going to try to have sex with a girl if I'm not being touched as well, but that is not in my control, so what should I do? I try upping the kino all the way, which is always comfortable, but never seems to get far... It is frustrating so any advice would be much appreciated.
If after 2 or 3 nights with a girl I still don't get any, then I stop texting them, but maybe there is something different I can do. I have recently changed this attitude as I don't like to stop dating them without having had any sex, as it makes the nights I spent with them wasted, and I would just end up being more of an AFC who dates girls and doesn't get anywhere...