I suck at reading girls. Sometimes I think they are into me when they are not, sometimes they are into me and I miss the signs.

So I met this girl and we've hung out 4 times now. We hung out 2 nights in a row with common friends about 3 weeks ago. 1st night we had tons of fun, a little kino but nothing serious, also a guy she had slept with a month ago was there flirting. 2nd night I bought her a drink and walked her to her car, got her number, she seemed to show interest.

We text a little the next few days and about a week later I meet her out, shes with her friends. Our conversations were a tad boring but at the end of the night I gave her a quick kiss which turned out to be slightly awkward. HOWEVER, when she gets home she texts me saying she wants more kisses. So we plan to meet the next night, again I meet her and her friends out and this night was amazing. A lot of kino, back rubs, arms around each other, waist grabbing. I took her outside and we had a great make out session.

It's been about a week since that night. We've made vague plans twice since which I've initiated but nothing materialized. At this point I have no idea how interested she is. I actually really like this girl and sort of want to pursue a relationship.

I'm just not sure if I should slow down since she doesn't seem to care much if we hang out again or not. Or should I step on the gas since she was clearly into me a week ago and I've been moving slow. What should my next move be? Any help is appreciated as well as any general signs that I should look for. Thanks to all readers!

Well, what I would do, I would somehow show (not say) that I am preselected; talk to girls at clubs while she is there and also guys. Show that youre a social guy and that you are not scared to lose her. Don't run after her and in this case, I would wait 2 days and just blandly call her. It is hard and I am still new at this, but hey, give it a shot. It is a constant learning.

Peace