so basically havng drunk sex isnt a problem for me, drunk sex just seems to happen without any akwardness or questions asked and i think the girl is more willing and just goes with it, but when it comes to sober sex i have problems escalating, lets put my self in a scenario with a girl ive been dating for a couple of weeks how do i go from dating to sex, the girls never gonna make the first move right? so do i just have a seduction location, maybe have her over to watch a movie and then make my move and play it base by base by kissing then onto slipping my fingers inside her etc etc:, do i ask her is she ready?, and if your in a relationship does it all happen naturally and just flow? any help and advice would be great

Kino, kino, kino. Escalate kino. Comfort is built the most through touch.

The reason you probably have no problem when you are drunk is because you aren't afraid to touch places you might not touch when you are sober. Have this same mindset when you are NOT drinking of you are not afraid to touch because you are naturally a touchy person and the sex will feel "natural" to her.