Hey guys, I had a strange kind of LMR last night. I am sure other people have had a similar situation. A few years ago, this happened to me and the relationship has been similar to this one, so I figured it must be a real problem.

First off I want to give you a short story of this girls and mine relationship. We have been in the same class (and known each other) for more than 1 ½ years. In the start I was a hardcore AFC trying to get together with her in stupid ways. That changed after a few months though when I didn't have the energy to continue. I discovered “The Game” by Neil Strauss and have had a greater success with women (amongst one of her friends).

We have been good friends for a long while now but the last month she have begun to give me lots of sexual vibes and shit. We were on the same party last month when she started to hit on me and we ended up making out naked in her bed and although we didn't get to the penetration stage we did have sexual stuff going on.

She blamed that incident on that she were drunk (which is a lie). Anyway, I let her believe that and everything went back to normal.

So two nights ago, she called me to see a movie at her place. We then began to give each other back rubs. It started to escalate when she took of her bra and told me to fondle her breasts (right after she asked me if I had feelings for her, which I responded “no” to). She took up the subject and talked about sex in a casual way, I knew where she were heading. I didn't want to have sex with her just at that time because I hadn't masturbated in a while (or done anything sexual for that matter) and I knew I would be really sensitive and cum too fast so I just went to sleep beside her.

Last night she wanted to come over to watch a movie again. I let her in, I gave her a massage as the movie went on, she once again took of her bra, just like that. So I started to get more sexual with her, I moved my hand into her panties and started to play with her vagina (which is really hard to do you have cramp in your leg). I then asked her to kiss me to which she responded “I don't kiss my friends”.

What the fuck is up with that? I didn't call her out on it (even though I really wanted to), I just moved my hand away and made the so called "freeze-out" (which usually works just fine).

How do I get past this weird LMR and get to the next level? I mean she clearly showed me some big indicators both nights but she didn't want to move it forward. Any help would be great for me and anyone who might end up in a similar or the same strange situation like this one.
Thanks
--T

PS: Sorry for any misspelling and grammar errors that I might have made, my mother tongue isn't english

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Put your dick in her would be my guess.

If she gives you another chance that is, she gave you two green lights!

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Lol... Wtf? That's not LMR... That's you being a girl. Since when do guys asked to be kissed? And then you freeze her out to top it off?

Next time don't be such a pussy. YOU go kiss her. YOU take off her bra. YOU take the lead. If she lets you put your hand down her panties, imagine what else she'd let you do. So stop playing games with yourself and get to work.

If this was facebook I would have liked the post above.
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OMG you thought this was LMR? Dude, this girl wants no strings attached sex, this is ideal situation IMO, can't believe you blew it, such an AFC mistake. Stop asking her permission to do shit and just grow some balls and fucking do it. The girl takes her bra off and lets you play with her vag, she clearly wants to be pinned down and raped then sploodged in the face!

Get your shit together bro and stop being a needy loser! Who gives a fuck if she won't kiss you? A fuck is 100 times better than a kiss

You should always assume everything she says is a joke until she makes it obvious its not. I would have laughed and said me either, so what does that make us? Are you my enemy? while touching / kissing her

Sometimes you just have to wonder how the human race ever made it this far.

Here's something that will stop you from ever dealing with that type of "LMR" in the future. Just go with it man. If shes completely receptive then why ask questions? Why put that doubt in her head. Maybe she was completely fine with kissing you before you asked her. Or maybe she wanted to sleep with you and just not kiss. Is there something wrong with that either? The thing I'm getting from this is though that you're not dumb you're just thinking too much. Shut down some of that thought process and go a little bit more by instincts.