It has happened to me in several occasions, that women who I had ONS or I had sex only two times, don't want to see me anymore. They don’t reply to my sms or even want to answer my calls. They don’t even explain me why they take this decision. They just disappear without saying a word. So I have no feedback and I don’t know what could be going wrong.

First I thought of the possibility of me “being not good in bed”. So I looked for info about it and I APPLIED these new tricks in bed. But I kept having the same problem. That’s why I honestly think is not a “bed problem”. Another reason is because I haven’t had this problem with all the girls I have fucked quickly. Even some of them were my LTRs later.

To give more details, all the girls which I had this problem were 27 or above, and I had sex with them in our very first date, or maybe in the second date at the most. What do you think is the problem? How can I turn a ONS into a girl I can fuck several times?

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Una mujer se miente más de lo que un hombre podría mentirle

You see the one night stand again.

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Man all the chicks I've been friends with later I turned it into fwb later on but I've never reversed a one night stand. Women seem to have a fire and forget attitude with ons because they're looking for fun no strings Attatched. The fwb is looking for a dude who is cool with no emotional strings Attatched that can hang sometimes and do the dirty. So either you're good looking but you have no real personality or you're trying to get a consistent lay from the wrong type of chick which is the fire and forget bang me for a night type and those dont make good fwb.

Interesting comment. How do I know if a chick is a good prospect for ONS or a good prospect for Fuck Buddy?

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Una mujer se miente más de lo que un hombre podría mentirle

Take a look at the 2 terms

1. One night stand
2. Fuck BUDDY/FRIENDS with benefits

Focus on being a good friend beside the sex

The way you describe things is the same as if a prostitute is constantly calling you to fuck. You dont know who this weird prostitute is and why he is 'stalking' you. It's uncomfortable and scary...

Be more than a prostitute and less than a husband (<- FRIENDS)

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Hi,

i think the thing i would do is to find common interest that u also share with some of your friends and then form regular occasions to do the thing u share together with her AND your friends.

The example i thought about: Im used to visit sneak preview with some of my friends every two weeks. She likes cinema? - GREAT - Invite her to join you. So you share some activities, but it still wont make her feel like being dated because of the regularity and the fact that your friends are present. If you are lucky she might enjoy being your mate while still going on having sex with you - done!

I really would like to know whether this works^^

You mean, have you never done it? Is it a joke?

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Not meant as a joke,
i just have been in a LTR for a long time, so i never had the chance to try it out, really.