For some reason and I don't know why but its really getting to me.. I build all this rapport and everything with women and make sure I'm not friend zoned and my intentions are clear and all that, we hit off and when I ask to hang out they all agree and we set dates and all. Everything goes swimmingly until a few hours before we're supposed to meet! I'm not a bad looking guy and I dress well and everything but this keeps happening.

If they don't want to hang out that's one thing, its just the fact of them agreeing and then abandoning at the last minute.
I respond very nonchalant to them like its whatever so I don't cine of ad AFC but it's getting to me.

Its always maybe next time and I always feel like saying you don't get a next time, think that would be wise?

Just say "sure" and stop talking to them until they start talking to you first, push them away, and if nothing happens in the end just move on