Hey Guys.

Have been in the 'game' hardcore for over a year now. And have had a lot of pain that lead to a lot of success, personal growth, and social freedom in my life.

I am very happy w/ where I am at and what I have accomplished.

However, TEXT GAME is a huge sticking point for me... Especially, I just recently downloaded "Tinder" app, and am literally making excuses to not text these sexy girls that it matched me w/. I can go out in the club, to the grocery store, wherever, and instantly create attraction w/ females or just have fun w/ people in general. Hold strong eye contact, have sexy flirty conversation...all of it.

But, when it comes to getting day 2s or apps like Tinder. I don't know what the fuck to do or say anymore. I've tried building a connection/comfort via text. I've tried using it only for a meet up, and literally cutting off interactions before it goes into too much "texty texty" back and forth.

I kept thinking: "Ok, I've got it figured it out now". But, I don't. This is a huge sticking point for me, and I don't know what I am doing wrong.

I just had an hb9/10 that I fucked for a couple weeks back where I used to live text me out of the blue. And it was going great, and I ended the interaction feeling like I fucked it up. I had a girl who was trying to make out w/ me in front of her Mom and Step Dad (whom I disarmed and won over, and literally hit on their daughter safely and effectively in front of her), I got her number, she was super into me and I was texting her just on the bare essentials to get the meet up. And couldn't get the meet up.

A lot of gurus say, text game and meet ups take care of itself once your game gets better. The problem is, my game is really fucking good when I am in front of the girl in person. I"m just not having problems, in comparison to my text game. And, I don't know what I'm doing wrong.

**TLDR**My game in person is tight, my text game Blows. Any RECOMMENDATIONS on Youtube videos to watch for text game? Products, and/or forum post on the topic?

Thanks,
Casual

text game is somethign you do when you either really like a girl or you like talking to her.....the reason why is because convos and stuff happen smoothly

if you find yourself having a hard time texting her simply tell her you'll rather meet in person

BUT WHEN YOU DO TEXT try to be flirty, funny, and cocky...im a beast at text games because i HATE talking on the phone....just take your time and think of something funny, flirty, or cocky to say that would also start a convo

i got a girl number once and texted her hey and she responded who's this and i responded "im the SPAM i can't let you know my true identity" and she knew who it was....it might be lame but she laughed

like you said your game is amazing in person but through text it sucks.....probably because you can judge reactions through body language and tones of voice, but the beauty of texting is you can think of different reactions to what you say before you say it, sao basically say the same thing you would say in person but in text form

shit i know this didn't help but i tried lmao

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

Naw, that was definitely useful. You made a good point...because I was sitting here trying to wrap my head around why I am so good in person, but am failing at text game.

And your right, after a year of being in the field and so many 'sets'. It's like I've gained Super Powers in reading people. I can sit there and see the most sutle responses in body language, voice pitch, everything. And can read the situation and the person's reaction, and adjust accordingly. I obviously can't do that through text... The only thing I can do through text is read the words...

So, text takes away a huge arsenal of my skill set. I feel like a Natural in person through training, but feel like my basic understanding of theory and stuff in game is lacking. Like, I really couldn't tell you the first thing about Mystery Method or the process and steps of seduction. So maybe that is what is holding me back in text game.

Thanks for the perspective and response.

We are in the same train buddy

My text game isnt that good, i rule in dates and face to face day and night
So i think maybe i just text a little and the set the date or phone call?
Need some advice here