Ive been into PUA sarging for over a year now and havent really gotten any better than when I started. I certainly have fun going out and hanging out with my friends but never get myself into conversations with women.

I dont have a problem opening girls, to me thats the easy part, but the first one is always the hardest so I try to get that one over with early on. However, I always get blown out, friends come in, imaginary boyfriends get brought up, or something causing them to visit the restroom with the age old story of "ill be right back." My wing asked one of his friends what she thought about me and," I feel like hes always hitting on me." I didnt like that one bit. So I've decided to slow it down and just try to atleast make friends with ladies by disqualifying myself with lines like, "if my friend were here he would melt if he saw you in that, you would like him," or "I should definitely introduce you to my single friends." And without doubt I feel like women feel as if I am coming on too strong. My friends say I am an alpha type personality and body to match to give an idea of myself to whoever is reading this. So it may just be what comes with being an alpha male, but if there is something that can be done about projecting I would be more than thankful to know what it is.

Your not projecting too much you're just projecting the wrong thing. It seems like you're very dependent on outcome and trying to compensate on that. Also usually alpha personality guys have this ego where they feel they can't be rejected and always play safe because if they actually put their balls on the chopping block and get rejected they will feel like their self image(alpha guy) is ruined(I know this because I also have alpha personality and body and girls always even when i was chode used to tell me I am hot) . This makes them seek external validation to reaffirm their alphaness and masculinity. In order to fix this just stop looking for external validation and seek validation from within from yourself. Also when you talk to girls make sure you have the intent clear. If you think they're hot don't try to beat around the bush by convincing them you're just gona be friends with her. Be blunt, there nothing more attractive to girls than bluntness from guys.

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