Saturday, I had a shit day trying to merge my social cicle with another that belonged to the HB8. Bad house party with weird vibes and my trying to act dancing monkey to help merge the groups.

Originally, I had high value to the target and isolated her to the pool for some 1 on 1 make outs. I F ed up alot by getting jealous when amoggers were kinoing my target. But I think my sloppy game that day was saved by my previous nights of DHVing. later that night at korean BBQ, her dumbass AFC friend asked where I was sleeping tonight, trying to imply that I should go back to their place and sleep with my target. He's trying to help, but he basically amoged me by triggering my target's ASD.

This is where I really f-ed up. I leaned over and asked my target "Did you want me to go back with you tonight?" she said no.

I later learned I need to just make love happen and allow serendipity to take its course. I NEEDED TO JUST MAKE IT A DIRECTIVE.

Instead I should have said "Are we going to sleep on the ground later? or the bed?"

Or

I should have did a Yes ladder like:

"did you have fun tonight" yes
"time always fly by fast when it's fun huh?" yes
"you will stay up later right? I got a surprise for you." mi pistola

Instead I let her choose by asking her did she want me to stay over. no wonder she said no.

Anywho now i'm fing stuck at this stage and I feel like she's trying to make me BF material. I just wanna F clsoe so I CAN BE THE ONE TO DECIDE IF I WANT HER TO BE MY GF OR JSUT A ONS.

we made out later and I told her we should stop making out right then and there and wait for next time.

I'm also not calling my number closes.

This post is just an FYI as to how I solved my sticking point, I guess.

If you have any other suggestions, please tell me, I'm all ears.