I don't realy know if this is a stickypoint-material, tho i have this problem and i'm not sure how to deal with it.

I'm 22 and i'm still living at my parents place (i as living alone for a year in another town - student corridor, then i moved back cus i didn't find any apartment to rent).
Well there is not such a big problem when it comes to girls that are 18-21 (but sometimes they can actually show that they are thinking it's wierd).

Anyway, i have this anxiety when it comes to taking older girls back home. How should i deal with it?
Should i say something special so that it does not matter for them where i live?
Or should i make fun of the situation? Or just explain how it turned out this way (which is DLV i guess?)

I know there is this option to go to her place insted, but what reason should i come up with so that she agrees to go to her place (the best way would be to make her suggest to go to her place without me having to mention that my place is not avalible)?

I'm actually looking for an apartment SPAM, but i don't want to stop gaming just because i don't have a place of my own yet..

Thx in advance.

You already know the solution. This is to get your own place. This is what you should tell the girl. It shows that you are moving forward with your life have some goals etc. It's that simple.

Meantime bring them to your house. You have no other choice other than a motel or something. If your so young it's not a big deal that you live with your parents and girls your age won't have an issue with that. Older girls that's different of course.

I see. How should i handle girls who's negging me for that? Any good combacks? When it comes to same-night-lay, they wont be that interested to listen to my whole story to why my situation is like it is.

Girls nagging shouldn't effect you at all. Why should it honestly ? Have you had a situation before where it happened where the girl actually told you that this sucks ? I have a feeling that you are just making one excuse up yourself.

If this comes up and she says it suck then you can ask her if she lives alone and if yes than just suggest going back to her place instead.

Personally i would get them talking about there life and something cool they have at there apartent. then get them to agree to show you it. Start leading her to it the same way you would your house and end up sealing the deal. Listen to her she will give you what you need to get past any sticking point.

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Thank you all for the advices!