This is the biggest sticking point for me aside from my opener. I'm in college, if I'm ever going to try and get with a girl, it's going to be in either mine or her dorm room. I need help going in for the kiss. How should I escalate up to it and ultimately go in for it without looking like an idiot?

Don't underestimate the power of looking like an idiot. Just do what you want to do, when you want to do it. If it works, it works, if it doesn't try again later.

Show her some dance moves. Whisper in one ear, then the other one, and oh, looki looki, your lips passed right by hers and bam, you go in for the kiss.

You just got to own it. You're the man. Play the role. She will dig it, or run.

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What you sow is what you reap

Have you figured out how to spot kiss IOIs? This is an integral part of the timing of the kiss (or whether you should or not).

It's always a good idea to do enough homework to give yourself at least a 70% kiss success rate. Any lower and its a decent gamble, and could result in an awkward situation.

A good measuring point is how well the girl reacts to your kino. If you've developed a touchy, huggy, playful relationship, odds are that she's pretty comfortable with you. This is the best way to lower defense.

If you're familiar with kino, start applying this to girls right away (subtle, not creepy of course). Use this as your benchmark for who reacts well and who doesnt. The ones that do will probably have a higher rate of kiss success. Until you have a couple of these under your belt it'll be tough to pick up on cues.

Here is one thing I've done a few times though:

First of all, I invited over and she said yes, which means she's at least cool with the risk of getting kissed...or wants to be kissed. Either way, I was playing with decent odds.

She was sitting on the sofa and as i walked by her and made eye contact, i just stuck out my hand (palm up). She grabbed my hand, I lifted her up (so now shes standing) and I kissed her. It was spontaneous, it was confident. Confidence is a big ASD breaker because if she senses any uneasiness on your part, it gives her the chance to reconsider her options. Dont give her that option. Do it smooth and confident and you'll rarely have any issues.

i found this quite funny recently but sometimes you need to get out of your comfort zone and do it.

here's what i found funny it's from an episode of CSI

guy: hey Stephanie i remember you
CSI girl: i don't know you
guy: *goes in and kisses her*
CSI girl: do that again and i'll arrest you
guy: sorry i thought you were the one

don't quote me on that but what he did was there. But in essence put yourself out there and see what happens

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Dranzer

This works like almost all the time. I just look her in the eyes and ask "Do you want to kiss me?"

Most of the time they say yes. Then you give her a passionate kiss. Take your hand and draw her in by cupping the back of her head. Make it a perfect kiss. This is the one they remember. I have a girlfriend that told me strait up if boys are not good kissers she will not go out with them any more.

If they say no then say "good I did not say you could."

I got that from David Deanglo and its gold.

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Why guys and girls don't mesh.

"Chicks are crazy and guys are dumb." Chinopants.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=en ... a_Nno&NR=1

Get close to her and kiss her? You shouldn't complicate things dude!