Not sure what it is but I keep getting the I have a boyfriend or they don't tell me and one of my friends tell me later on. Don't understand why this is happening. I get their number or sometimes they add me on FaceBook and talk too me, then I check their profile.. in a relationship.

One last example, last weekend these girls open up on me and my other two buddies. I get ones number before I leave, give them our table. 30 minutes later I get a text asking where I went. She invites me back to her rez, not asking if I was still with my friends only when we arrived so she could sign us in. We start talking about bucket list, but she says I can't do one because I have a boyfriend.. She had 2-3 other friends with her from the bar.

PS I could looked at her FB it and said she was single, but had a photo with what looked like her boyfriend, not sure. And pretty much every girl I can confirm that they did have a Boyfriend minus this last one.

What do you guys think keeps happening to me here? I seem to be attracting girls in relationships. I would say this happens almost 50% of the time.

Valastan how many girls are you approaching?
I learnt that the number of girls you approach is relative to the number of girls you meet who have boyfriends. So say if you approach 10 girls and 5 are taken you probably need to approach so many more that the single girls outnumber the taken ones by a sizable degree. I've found it's the only real way to do it. I hope that helps. I've been in the exact same situation and I know girls are abundant so in the end once you utilize abundance this won't mean anything at all.

Thanks for the reply, and not too many as I live in a small town so its hard but I'm sure once I move into the city this summer things will change.

There are a hundred reasons women might tell you they have a boyfriend, and just as many guys they may be thinking about when they use that word.

A women in an "official traditional relationship" is no less interested in hot sex with every guy she's attracted to, than a woman who's not in an official traditional relationship.

Once the boundaries begin blurring, you may notice this problem becoming less and less of an issue, eventually waking up one day happy to realize that it's all behind you now.

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