Hey there guys,

I'll be brief cause I gotta rejoin my friends at our table

Get this: Some time after I learned about PU I started to enjoy a healthy amount of successes. Eventually I settled for one. At this point I became more of a romantic man and blending PU game with romanticism works for a relationship. Then I started to get attention from a higher caliber of women: rich ladies and professionals but I never did anything, I stayed faithful. What worked with them was to use PU techniques with an air of mystery, stay calm, insinuate sexual tension, deep voice, and intriguing conversation.

But then, I had to move to another city, a college town. I left my gf, my circle, all that. I went out the last three weekends to get back in the game but it turns out... I suck. I get AA, I feel like an AFC. I see guys just opening directly and sometimes it works. I try to do the same but it doesn't come off naturally. I'm probably still in that mindset of delicacy, subtleness, and mystery that worked so well for me. Being in a relationship for too long had affected my game. This is my sticking point, it feels weird to do the same things again after being in a relationship for too long, to get back to the game. I've been failing and I gotta change that.

Any personal experience or some feedback would be appreciated.

You guys rock

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It happens to the best of us. A relationship generally attempts to revert you back into an AFC/scrub. I mean let's level for a second; your girl will always convince you to stay in with her, eat out and not go to gym. All of these things stray you from your new self and revert you back into being comfortably lazy.

There's no magic pill for you to get back on your feet. You need to just get out there and start all over again. It'll be hard but not as hard as your first time starting PU. Just keep approaching if you have AA. Just keep conversing with sets if you feel nervous and run out of things to say.

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