Hi guys. I have been having a sticking point after going out with girls for the first time. The interaction usually goes well and sometimes I go for the kiss close successfully (I K-close like 4 out of every 5). But I only go for it when I am positive it's the right time to do it.

However, after the first "date" the girls start to become unresponsive via text and eventually start ignoring me. I have tried a couple of things:

-first I tried being persistent and scheduling a meeting in the next couple of days but that did not go to well.
-then I started waiting a few days (3 or 4) before texting them. They respond to my messages initially but then the interaction dies out and we do not meet again.
-Lastly, I recently tried waiting about a week and then contacting the girl, but have done it very few times for a representative sample.

My biggest concern is... after the intial date, do you dial down the interaction a bit? do you keep it the same or spike it up?. It seems I have tried all 3 but I'm still having a SP. In the last 12 months out of 10 girls I have only managed to go out on a 2nd date with 1

Are women really this flaky in general? Thanks in advance