I have had numerous times bringing a girl back to my place, hanging out on my bed and I get the LMR and ASD. Its a lot of 'I don't usually do this' or 'I'm not that type of girl' or this is just our 2nd date. Even sometimes I've had girls come home from the bar to my place and won't do anything. Last one was on her period, still came back and only wanted to make out, wouldn't do anything to me. I guess that one is a whole other topic.

Anyway are there tips anyone is using to minimize the ASD? Is anyone using reverse psychology and stealing the girls thunder beforehand and saying 'im not that type of guy so dont think youre going to get anything?'

Definite sticking point but if anyone has anything they can share or stories it would be appreciated. Thanks

Yes, reverse psychology all the way. From early on too. As soon as you start getting ioi's, tell her that you aren't the type of guy who hooks up with girls he barely knows. That you don't like ONS. That you prefer to have a deeper connection to the girl you are seeing. That you want a relationship. That you never hook up on the first date. Etc etc...

Never telegraph your intentions, and do things which seemingly contradict what you are trying to accomplish. And when the girl starts to make her stand, just go along with it and be non-reactionary.

I also have the opinion that ASD is a rape test of sorts. The girl allows herself to be put in the most vulnerable position possible, gets the guy all worked up, then tells him "no sex". She's testing the guy to see if he is actually a good guy and won't try to rape her because he has no self-control. Demonstrating self-control here is how you pass that test.

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I agree with everything Ninja said, it cannot be explained better.

For their part girls just don't want to feel like "sluts".

For your part, they want to know that you have that respect for them.

Anyway what is the massive rush? If a girl is that way inclined just take your time with her.

Although it is nice to have sex on the first or second date, if you do fail to get that far then just arrange to meet up again and escalate slowly. She'll tell you when she's ready. There's an old saying: "Slowly, slowly catchy monkey."