| Try to talk about topics that are sexual in some way. Even if you have to ask her something stupid like "Why do girls think Channing Tatum is so hot?" Get her talking about men, sex, her body, your body, love, etc.
A great trick I learned from Gambler is letting her talk and just going "Uh huh...u huh...m hm...u huh" after every single comment she says. Stare her in the eyes as you do it and kind of cut her off after each thing she says. Have a coy smirk on your face. You can also do the same thing and say nothing, just stare in her eyes and smile. The point is to let her know that you don't give a fuck what she is muttering, and you are only interested in flirting with her. You can also use moments of silence to create sexual tension, but again, body language is key here. When the convo goes quiet just stare deeply into her eyes, and lean forward ever so slightly.
And finally, kino, Kino, KINO! Did you really think the girl was going to start cupping your crotch with her hand through your pants and tell you that you're sexy? You are going to have to get physical with this girl first. You are the man, you make the first moves. Touch her, it doesn't matter how or where, but touch her often. When you want her to look at something pull her around and face her towards it. When you need to tell her something quietly, put your hand on her shoulder and say it in her ear. If you are just fucking standing there or sitting there, be in such close proximity to her that your arm or leg is brushed up against hers. Have this mentality that everything you say and do with the girl is an excuse to touch her. Open a door for her and put your hand on her lower back and push her through gently. Do the same when she steps up on a curb from the street. Tell her she looks tense and start rubbing her shoulders. What's she gonna' do, tell you to stop because she hates back rubs!?!
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