Lately I've noticed about myself that every time say i see a really attractive woman, say like on facebook or something you see them like that where you can actually see their true beauty, it makes me angry at them. Even at when I have rejected or even had past relations with them, if they rejected me it's a lot worse obviously. (generally i could put this in a lighter insight and defend myself with secondary words but I'm just going to put it as it is)

I mean, i can be friends with a girl and then i see how pretty she actually is, then i kind of feel attracted to her, then i want to tell her to fuck off or something similar. It's just confusing to me.

Also i have this thing where i used to feel that way with one girl, then when she told me she liked me, i wasn't attracted to her anymore (I understand the concept of not wanting someone when you know you can have them, but this is different.. cause literally an hour went by when my whole perspective changed when she told me she liked me)

Now i feel this way again towards that girl, even though i knew she used to like me, (which was a week ago, but i know she probably feels different at this point because i told her i just want to be friends and tried to avoid hanging out with her)



Well what I'm getting to is I want to know if there's any book that can help change my perspective on women, that can give me a better light for them, or a better frame that can help me with woman based on the emotions i get towards them.

I've read pretty much all on the recommended reading list, the reason I'm asking for a book is because I know the power of words, I've started reading "Science and Human Behavior" by B.F. Skinner really gave me a new insight and perspective of sociology, science, and psychology

So I'll try and give my perspective on this, however accurate it may or may not be. First off, feelings of anger or irritation as a response to beauty and physical attractiveness in a woman are not normal. Not unheard of, but pretty "out there". Usually it stems from a warped misogynistic viewpoint, (something many people get out of PUA in one way or another ), and it's a psychological process along the lines of "how dare she look that good", "how dare she put in that much effort to look good and she feels good about the results". These feelings stem from their subconscious belief that women are inferior to men and should not derive pleasure from being pleasing for men to look at as if they were a prize.


Anyway, your case may easily be along a different train of thought processes but I thought I'd throw that out there anyway. Done rambling. Merry Christmas!

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Yea that's pretty much it, i don't like when a lot of women do things such as compared to a guy.

If i see someone speeding past me, if it's a guy I'm more likely to accept it, but if it's a girl I'm likely to be pissed off, because i'd assume she doesn't have the skill to drive as well as a man or even need to be somewhere in a hurry.

Also if I see a woman try to proclaim dominance in anyway, I'm more likely to shut her down her call her out about it. It's not only that I'm also just really picky about girls, that's one reason i joined this community because i couldn't find a girl I'd actually want to spend time with in my life.

Pretty girls have worsened personalities that I've met, and girls with the personality i want, I'm not attracted to.

Do you know any way I can improve from this outlook i have on women, especially since you consider it to be unhealthy?

I never really just tell a woman to fuck off in person, I just won't answer their calls or texts. Generally I'll call them out and proclaim dominance on them using humor, but I'm not sure. I guess I'm just confused about this certain area of how i feel.

I just try to remember that there are lots of guys with shitty personalities also, and that the whole outward/inward beauty paradox can apply to guys as well. This way I can try to have the same standards for males and females, and treat them all as the people they are. Next time a girl does something that annoys you, think about how you would feel if a guy had done it

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Every girl is different. But not TOO different.

In the end, It's not about girls.