Okay, well it starts back maybe a few years ago long before joining this community and learning anything over excessive about pick-up.

Okay well when i first break the ice from kissing a girl; not sure what exactly made me do this, maybe nervousness not sure. When i first went in to kiss a girl for the first time my lower lip would start to have like a slight shaking feeling. I'm not sure if they can tell honestly, thinking about it now it could be sexual tension.

But recently; specifically last night; It happened to me again.

Please bare into the story, just giving extra details (and different techniques incase anyone is reading this that is new to the forums or techniques)

I used some things i know, and some things i learned to get a girl to ask me out to the movies (I didn't ask, movies bore me and make a suckish date) and then last minute she said she was bringing a friend (probably felt nervous I figured, and it gives a security for her). I said "Sure, more the merrier!" hoping to help build some extra comfort.

So at first i take them by to a local grocery store to buy candy (trying to build a rapport with the other girl as well to improve chances with this other girl; also makes it seem like we've been more places together) So i start to get IOI's from her friend now also, then we leave and go to the movies. (inbetween when we're driving I'm almost always making jokes, or pointing out observational humor and/or picking on the girls for humor purposes.

Once at the movie we find our seats (I lead them them the whole time to point out my alpha-male instinct) So I sit down and the girl i was going for sits next to me and her friend sits the next seat over by her, then a few minutes in she starts saying she doesn't want to sit on the end and making excuses to move next to me.

At this point I'm giving each girl a different letter, the girl i wanted to go with A, her best friend she brought, B.

She's sitting next to me I'm making jokes to both of them (different types of jokes to each i think would match their humor) So i bump the B girls arm to emphasis a joke to her then she immediately bumps me back (at this point i know she wanted to have some sort of physical contact with me) She puts down the arm rest then i immediately grab it with my arm (points out I'm alpha and also makes me appear more open with my arms away from my body) Then she tries to fight for it also, at this point i noticed girl A was getting queit and was slower to laugh at my jokes. She was hiding emotions but she wasn't showing as many IOI's as her friend was so i guess she was a little big shier.

I figure she was jealous and then I think at that point she decided she liked me because she saw me in a possible romantic way and that it might be too late for her to have me. I started holding girl B's hand and then i see girl A leave, i thought for the bathroom, then it was awhile so i thought she had her period. I ended up kissing girl B and trying to atleast build up some sexual tension without over doing it cause we were in a crowded movie theatre, nothing was going to happen. I go down to the bathroom and i see girl A sitting down and i go over and ask what's wrong and she said she was going to leave (She made it seem like she had a guy she liked but was having troubles and wanted to go home, so i tried to comfort her and i made her laugh a little bit and i let her leave) Then i just go back to girl B and tell her, she was kind of mad at her, but girl A didn't know i kissed her or anything at this point.

Just to make this clear we met up around 18:00, and it was 19:00 by this time.

So a little after the movie was over I called girl A, cause I had no idea what to do with girl B, she was attractive and all but after actually talking to her for a while she was not my type at all, she doesn't know i think that, i still pretended to be open minded to everything she was into.

We ended up going to the mall, Uncontrolled logistics so i said i had to leave maybe after 10 minutes of being there, Also the mall sucks ass. <-- haha


What i need advice on is how to prevent any nervousness or tension that is causing my lower lip to shake on the first kiss or any of the ice breaking kisses.


I feel like i didn't involve any principle in the story pointing out the issues there but oh well i changed the title, to point out a different purpose.