There are those girls that are hot but only out bc someone dragged them put. It happened to me Saturday. My buddy had a girl meet us Saturday at the bar an she had a friend. We were at the bar and i couldn't be get her to lighten up. Anyone know how to approach these situations??

bitchiness loves company. You be a little bitch too. Be snarky and bitchy about things that she is bitchy about. You can not reason with her or try to convince her shes having a great time. You can agree with her and pull the bitch factor off of you and share with her. Its like matching her actions. She will then relate to you. Down side is your going to look like a jerk and a sour person to hang with. really no win on this. Keep her moving and use liqueur. The key hear is to get her to laughs and have some fun. You got to be funny and witty with out being the clown. You also got to get in with her inner defenses. Oh and call her out on BS. but be ready to fight she will shit test you and call it right back out on you. Don't back down when she does. Keep the heat on.

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Why guys and girls don't mesh.

"Chicks are crazy and guys are dumb." Chinopants.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=en ... a_Nno&NR=1

shes made her mind up. think about when you are in the same situation her mood creates a perceptual bias and her attention is only focused on things in the environment that reinforces what she believes.

just be polite and leave a girl like that alone, it could get ugly and she can make you look like you're harassing her. Other people won't see it from an objective point of view either (especially if shes hot)- not good for your image in public

if you already know her- different story

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you can fake it till you make it, but if it feels REAL go with the flow!

???You two are telling me two different things...

I didn't know the girl. Her friend had met my friend the night before at a downtown club and we were at a local bar this night

I usually have this kind of goofy, sarcastic humor that I use in set. Sometimes I tone it down when need be, sometimes I crank it up. I've found that you can often get girls like that laughing by just continually being silly and funny and acting like a jackass. I don't know if you are familiar with Tyler Durden from RSD or not (he's got lots of free utube vids), but imagine being a cranky bitch and running into that guy. He's so high energy and such a funny jackass that you couldn't help but laugh at the shit he says and does. And once the girl is laughing, that takes her out of the bitchy frame and loosens her up to socializing like a normal human being.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

not everyone is going to converge on opinion here

You will probably find that her bad mood is generalised, transient
and not directed towards you

you don't know her personally, you got no obligation to hang around or to know whats up. Just go around and do your thing( being cool, talking to people etc) don't try to get her attention or intentionally impress her. Eventually she will let her guard down (aka the mere exposure effect) around you. You should be able to read the vibes then you can get to know her.

She also might not let up, but that doesn't change the initial sitcho- so nothings lost you can only gain

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you can fake it till you make it, but if it feels REAL go with the flow!

(Im short, stocky pretty muscular w little to slim body fat and consider myself a unique and abnormal but good looking). However, these *she already made up her mind * girls piss me off and intrigues me to want them more bc they don't want me. Being funny does not attract these girls. Trust me I've tried it. They are miserable hot pissed at the world cunts. If anything I would have to agree w chinopants''be a bitch' back would work. I can just feel their negative energy when I am approaching... What kinda negative/bitchy openers you guys think woukd work?

"Nice bitch face, Have you been working on it all day?"

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Why guys and girls don't mesh.

"Chicks are crazy and guys are dumb." Chinopants.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=en ... a_Nno&NR=1

Perfect. Chinopants knows what im talkin about. It's these hot hot bitches that r so use to being hit on that act like this. I'm a social butterfly ill talk to whomever very funny but these '' bitches ' have been getting the best of me lately.