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A New Channel
The idea of seduction has been around for centuries, and seduction as we discuss it here has been around in its current form for many years. But more than ever, those of us who want to meet and attract women need to deal with texting as an important part of our game.
There are a lot of different ways to use texting, and mine is a minimal style: I use texting only to escalate the communication to a more signal-rich channel. What does that mean? Only a fraction of our communication involves the words we say, especially in a seduction situation. The most skilled seducers use all five senses: sight, sound, touch, smell, even taste. (Really. Robert Greene's Art of Seduction mentions how some of the best seducers would use sensual foods to arouse their targets.)
Escalate to Richer Signals
Text game strips all this away. It's digitized words on a small screen, with attention demanded by a beep—the same beep, perhaps, that your target hears when her ex-boyfriend texts to hassle her, or when her mom texts her with a nag about calling home, or an estranged friend texts with a putdown.
Why would you want to limit yourself to that channel if you had any other choice?
When I set about to entice a woman, I want her to hear the confidence in my voice, see the sexy smile on my face, feel my touch on her skin. That means in-person contact is better than a phone call, which is better than an email, which is better than a text. So I'll use texting almost exclusively as a means to escalate the interaction to a richer channel.
Make Her Tingle in 140 Characters or Less
So ideally, I use texts to set up a person-to-person interaction. So what, then, is the ideal text to send?
It's short. Confident. Declarative. Demonstrating higher value. I'm a busy man with lots of plans, and I'm willing to invite her along. She can accept or she can miss out.
"Drinks, tomorrow. 8pm. Crow Bar."
"Party. My place. Friday night. Wear a cocktail dress."
"Group skydiving, Saturday morning. Tell me yes by noon tomorrow so we can reserve you a spot."
"Call me ASAP—I just got some great news for you." (For when you scored front-row seats to the big concert.)
Dealing With Flakes
Most of the time, if you laid a solid foundation when you first got the number to text to, you'll get a prompt confirmation or call-back. But not always. So what happens when she responds a day late and a dollar short?
"Hey, thanks for checking in. Sorry you missed last night—we had a blast. I'll give you a heads-up next time."
Keep the control. Stay positive. Stay busy. Don't let her dictate your schedule. If she misses enough chances to be with you, you're the one to decides if she gets any more. Once she's eliminated herself from your consideration, you'll be too busy to accept any invitations from her—mainly because you'll be busy banging some other girl who's just a little bit hotter. _________________ Great reviews on seduction programs: http://seduction.worldproductreviews.co ... y/reviews/
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