Anyone knows any special tactics for waitresses, bartenders etc?
Usually like them a lot but I know nothing about tactics or techniques for them.
THX!

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it's about how hard you can get hit an keep moving forward,
how much you can take and keep moving forward.
That's how win it is done.''

Hitting on bartenders is for fucking amateurs. Every loser at the bar thinks he’s got a chance with that smoking hot bartender who keeps laughing at his jokes and leaning over to show off her glorious rack, but fucking newsflash: a hot bartender is nothing more that a glorified stripper. Don’t get me wrong, PUAs hit on bartenders any chance we get, only difference is we actually close the deal. But the skill comes in when we devote our energy to other places, they will then gravitate to you. Be a King, rule your roost! Take everything every AFC is doing and do the opposite.

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Ok I get the basic idea, do the opposite of the AFC does when interacting
with her and lead the way. But could you give me any specific techniques for closing the deal?
Its a special situation cause she's working and lots fo other guys hit on her and give her tons of attention thats why I asked any specific tactics

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''It ain't about how hard you hit,
it's about how hard you can get hit an keep moving forward,
how much you can take and keep moving forward.
That's how win it is done.''

Heywood is spot on as usual. But there are tactics for it if you decide that's who you want to pursue. One routine I heard was something to the effect of telling the bartender that they talk to everyone all day but never really get to know anyone. You basically kind of call them out, which most people don't do. And it's true, so they'll relate. Tell them you used to bartend and that you can relate to their plight, that builds rapport. Another tatic is one they use on strippers, which is to tell them to to break out of the worker/customer mode for a minute and real talk you. The key to all of this is to get them out of their frame so they don't just see you as umpteenth million guy who is hitting on them. You become a unique person in their eyes, and not just another guy asking for a coors light and tossing them a cheap pickup line.

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Where did you find these? Mystery refers to hired gun tactics
in his book (MM) but where can they be found? But your advice seems pretty good anyways

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''It ain't about how hard you hit,
it's about how hard you can get hit an keep moving forward,
how much you can take and keep moving forward.
That's how win it is done.''

I remember reading it in other posts about this exact same issue.

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Heres my 2 cents, and i have no xperience with this....


wink at her smile.


Give her a huge tip.

give her a business card with your number say "call me"

I was always wondering how it is possible to get bartender chicks too.

I used this trick before i ended up working in nightclub too..

Ask what she would recommend for you. Say 'ok' to some suggestions and 'no' to some others. when you have debated long enough, say: ''nah.. I take only water, i need to drive back to home tonight''.
Next time when u get back say: ''this time milk with ice''.
bartender: ''milk...with ice?''
PUA: Yeah, you heard me.. my ex was a bartender and she did very good drinks to me, including milk with ice''.

Now you and the bartender chick has a lot to talk about, and the conversation has been opened

hope this help (:

Seems ok especially as a conversation starter.Thx! Other ideas?

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''It ain't about how hard you hit,
it's about how hard you can get hit an keep moving forward,
how much you can take and keep moving forward.
That's how win it is done.''

My favorite hot bartender line:

"Um... a SoCo Manhattan for me and my friend here. And if you go extra easy on the water this time, this 50 cent piece has your name on it Kitten". Like you OWN the place!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.