When ever a situation arises where I have to dance, I usually fail miserably. At school dances and parties, (I'm in high school) I usually wait till people start grinding and just grind a lot because the girl dose most of the work. The problem here is its not the alpha thing to do. I basically use grinding as a protection from my terrible lack of rhythm. I know its hard to teach me to dance via the comments on a forum, but what is the best way to learn, and can you link me to any good videos or sites that can teach me how? Thanks a lot, and happy sharging![/youtube]

I have a similar problem, only difference is that I dance like 24-7. I dont care how I look, I just have fun. And therefore I get IOI's. if you want a good method based on Dancefloor game, look at the skillz method.
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he knows what he is doing. Also check his youtube chanel, only bad thing is that he only has like 4 viedeos on it, but it might help
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How good u dance aint important, its important how u dance

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Yea you have a good point man. Thanks for the help, I learned a lot!

I suck a dancing, so I avoid it if possible. But sometimes it creates awkward situations if I have to put too much effort into avoiding it when friends or girls want me to get out there with them. So I'll do it, but it's pretty much just grinding and typical white boy moves. I know some guys who don't have much in the way of rhythm or dance moves, but they go out there with high energy, flail around, and actually make it work for them. If you do it with confidence and have fun, girls will pick up on that and not hold your lack of skill against you. But yea, that's no substitute for actually developing some skills and practicing so you look smooth on the dancefloor. To that end, I'd say youtube is your friend.

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I checked out all that stuff and watched TONS of youtube videos, but no results. I'm going to get my hands on the book sometime soon and see if that helps.

Something like

Here is him doing a song you probably heard


I mean this is so advanced and dude will think its cooler than chicks, but the basic hipwork is key.