Hello everyone

When I was about 14, I was diagnosed with autism. While I do notice I have a really difficult time behaving in a way that is considered normal or even acceptable, inner game helps me a big deal. To make things worse, I had no mother figure while growing up. She had drinking problems that have roots in a time before I was born and most of her family died from either cancer or suicide. When I was 11, she drank herself to death.

Even though I didn't have alot of problems getting girls before I got into the game, I always felt like something was missing and I came up with a theory.

Having been a social disaster and most of my life, I am able to relate to girls who are unable to connect to their peers for a great variety of reasons. So most of my girlfriend were missing something in their lives, a gap that someone like me seems to fill perfectly. (Think depressed gothic girls, socially inept beauties and intellectually gifted girls without fathers)

However, lately I have been feeling a sense of fulfillment in the things I do. I've been studying social dynamics and inner game and made great progress over the course of the last year, also learning that a bond forged by shared misery is usually a miserable one. I've always wanted to belong with the 'normal' people and bit by bit I'm piecing it together.

I've been using some of my exes as target practice for routines. The main thing I notice is that when I bust on them for something they do or I tease them, they seem to miss that sense of self-confidence needed to deal with it and they usually feel offended in some way and their responses are of a very toxic nature. Note here: The things I say that offend them hardly differ from the things I say to girls I just me to bust on them. Those girls usually can't contain their laughter or blush.

My theory is as following: you can use teasing routines to flush out girls that feel unfulfilled in life.

I should also make a note that maybe exes are not ideal for practicing tease routines because I just ended it, and then I try to reignite something that should probably remain dead.

What is your take on this?
Are there other ways to tell apart girls that will drag you down in their misery from girls with a happy life of their own?

Busting on them = shit tests

Shit tests work the same way for men and women. They are used in order to determine what the other person will put up with, how far you can push them, and what their personality and character is really like. I think anything beyond that is just a matter of getting to know the person in a natual sort of way.

But shit testing exes?!? I don't understand the need to do that. Exes are exes for a reason, otherwise they wouldn't be exes. Know that.

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